Friday, December 25, 2009

Christmas 2009

It's Micah's first Christmas.  Maddie finally understands OPENING presents.  Unfortunately, it didn't go as planned.  They're BOTH getting over bronchitis.  Here they are with their nebulizers.



 

Maddie with her Zhu Zhu pets.



 

Maddie and Micah with their Thomas train table.



 

 

 Micah and Aunt Bethany.

 

Our new tradition -- a birthday cake for Jesus.  Notice the Zhu Zhu pets and Birthday Thomas joined us for the fun.

 

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Christmas Fun!

Just in time for Christmas.  Here are some pictures from the neighborhood Christmas party.



 

 

 

 

 

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Is it too late for FALL pictures?

Christmas Eve is tomorrow, so why not share some FALL pictures?  I was browsing our pictures and came across some pictures from this fall.  Don't mind the turkey bib.



 

 

 

 
 

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Santa: The Great Debate (Part II)

InTouch Magazine offers an interesting perspective on the man in red as well.  It's taken from Stories Behind Men of Faith by Ace Collins.  Here's a good excerpt:
"Yet what ultimately made [Nicholas of Myra] a legend was his love of children.  As he grew older, he used more and more of his funds to purchase gifts for children.  Giving toys or candy to little ones, Nicholas told stories of Christ and the gift He had given through His death on the cross.  Then, he would add, 'Jesus loves little children, and He loves you.'  Through these gifts, many began to understand the full measure of their salvation."
It goes on to describe him as a "servant of God" and a "legend of faith."

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Santa: The Great Debate

Our Santa trains didn't collide until we had Maddie.  Emily was in the non-believer camp.  I, on the other hand, believed and was devastated when I found out.  I recall standing at the top of the stairs and yelling down to my parents, "I guess that means the Easter Bunny isn't real either!"  Believe it or not, it's the source of all my problems today.

To believe, or not to believe?  That is the question.

Here's a great resource for those trying to figure it out -- Thinking About Santa.  In my opinion, the best excerpt is this:
"...we think about how confusing it must be to a straight-thinking, uncritically-minded preschooler because Santa is so much like what we're trying all year to teach our children about God.  Look, for example, at the "attributes" of Santa:
  • He's omniscient -- he sees everything you do.
  • He rewards you if you're good.
  • He's omnipresent -- at least, he can be everywhere in one night.
  • He gives you good gifts.
  • He's the most famous "old man in the sky" figure."
For those debating, I highly recommend checking it out.

Monday, December 14, 2009

First Trip to the Dentist

Maddie visited the dentist for the first time a few weeks ago.  Pinky (her "security blanket") joined her and got to experience some of the sights and sounds as well.  She did a great job.  Here are some pics from the trip.


Maddie and the dental hygienist holding Pinky's paws on the way back.
 
 Waiting patiently to be seen.
 
X-ray time!
 
Pinky making sure the toothbrush is safe for Maddie.
 
A little lick to put her at ease.
 
Look at that face.  Priceless!

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Do you believe it?

Louie shared these truths a few weeks ago at Passion City Church.
  • I Am Somebody, A Saint, By God's Grace, In Christ
  • I Am Blessed With Every Spiritual Blessing And Have All I Need In Christ
  • I Am Chosen By God
  • I Am Holy And Blameless In His Sight
  • I Am A Loved Son/Daughter Of God
  • I Am A Trophy Of God's Grace
  • I Am Redeemed And Forgiven
  • I Have The Holy Spirit In Me
  • I Am God's Possession
Do you believe it?

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Why I'm NOT a Bengals Fan

Yes, I was born in Cincinnati.  And no, I'm not a Bengals fan.

How did we break up?

In 1989, the Bengals lost to the 49ers in Super Bowl XXIII.  The 49ers won with 34 seconds left, leaving an eight-year-old completely devastated.  Since then, they've gone something like 110-193-1.

Every Sunday during that stellar stretch, I remember asking my dad if the Bengals were on.  "No, Mike.  They're blacked out again."  It eventually became a joke.

Needless to say, I lost interest in the Bengals and professional football all together.



How did I become a Steelers fan?

Emily is from Washington, PA, which is just outside of Pittsburgh.  She comes from a family of Steelers fans.  The year we got married was Big Ben's rookie year.  While they didn't go to the Super Bowl, they had a MUCH more exciting year than the Bengals.  Not having an allegiance to any professional team, it was a natural fit.

Since then, I've experienced a game a Heinz Field, celebrated two Super Bowl championships and have welcomed two little Steelers into the family.

HERE WE GO STEELERS, HERE WE GO!

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Fall Pics

I know it's late, but here are a few pics from our trip to the pumpkin patch and playing in the leaves.




Friday, November 13, 2009

Compassion Friday

The annual cost of a small dog is $580.  The annual cost of a medium dog is $695.  The annual cost of a large dog is $875. (ASPCA)

For $1.25 a day ($456 annually) you can provide a CHILD with an opportunity to receive an education; an opportunity to be healthy; an opportunity to receive love, guidance, personal attention, etc. (Compassion International)

I'm not knockin' dogs.  I'm just sayin'...

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Two roads diverged...

Have you ever read something and thought, "They're talking about me!"  That's exactly what I thought when I read this from TrueFaced:
"As we're walking down life's road, we arrive at a tall pole with signs pointing in two different directions.  The marker leading to the left simply says Pleasing God.  The one leading to the right reads Trusting God.  It's hard to choose one over the other, because both roads have a good feel to them."
On the path marked Pleasing God, "I come to a door that reads Striving to Be All God Wants Me to Be.  These words reflect the values that flow out of the motive of Pleasing God, and they describe how we believe we should act.  Since my motive is a determination to please God, I will value being all God wants me to be.  So, I open the door by turning the knob of Effort.  The motive of pleasing God has now produced the value of Striving to Be All God Wants Me to Be.  As I enter this enormous room, a hostess with a beautiful smile greets me and says in an almost too polite tone, 'Welcome to The Room of Good Intentions.'"
"The stifling atmosphere in the room...make[s] it hard for me to breath.  I am so tired of pretending and keeping up appearances.  As I search for the door, someone walks up to me and, looking over his shoulder, whispers, 'Hey, umm, I'm going to check out that other path back at the crossroads.  For the past several years, I've given this room everything I've got and something's not working for me.  You look tired too.  You want to go retrace our steps and head out for the Trusting God trail?'"
On the path marked Trusting God, I come to a door that reads Living Out of Who God Says I Am.  "I tilt my head to the side, thinking the phrase might make more sense if I do.  Those are certainly some words, one right after another.  What in the world to they mean?  It can't mean what I think it means!  When do I get to do something here?  Where's the part where I get to prove my sincerity?  Where are my guidelines?  When do I get to give God my best?  I shake my head and stoop down to read what it says on the doorknob...Humility."
"As I step inside, another hostess immediately approaches.  She smiles kindly and, with a voice that is at once knowing and reassuring, says softly, 'Welcome to The Room of Grace.'"
 "We will never please God through our efforts to become godly.  Rather, we will only please God -- and become godly -- when we trust God."

Friday, November 6, 2009

Compassion Friday



Please consider sponsoring a child through Compassion International today.

Friday, October 30, 2009

Compassion Friday

I'm switching Quick Facts Friday to Compassion Friday and in doing so, want to share the most recent letter we received from Magazi.


"Dear Mike Mauntel, Magazi salutes you "Shikamoo."  He says he is fine and doing well together with his family.  He says he is so grateful for the nice family gift you sent to him.  He says his parents are so grateful for the nice gift, for they were able to buy the following: One iron sheet, clothes for dad and mom, rice, sugar, beans, clothes (suit) for him and his sibling.  He also thanks you a lot for the nice photo, letters and stickers you sent to him.  He says he lives with his father, mother, and his sibling.  He says his past photo he had sent to you he took with his parents.  He says he, likes playing football game.  He says his best subjects are mathematics and handwriting.  Magazi hopes that Michael is born and grows well.  Hey says may you have a look at the photo he has sent to you when with his mother and sibling with all the gifts he bought.  He lastly says may you pray for his mother to know Jesus for he is of different denomination."
He also included this drawing.  Notice the stickers!



I thought Maddie would like to see the stickers on there since she LOVES stickers.  Unfortunately, she threw a fit.  "My tickers!"

I calmed her down, sat her on my lap, and tried to explain how Magazi lives in another country, is less fortunate that we are, etc.

Thinking I was getting through to her, she got up, turned around, looked at me and said, "No talk to me daddy."

Much like getting played, all I could do was laugh.

Please consider sponsoring a child through Compassion International today.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Mimi's house now?

So, I just got home from work.  Maddie greeted me at the door and immediately gave me a hug and kiss, which has NEVER happened before. 

I said, "This is one of the best days of my life!"

Meanwhile, Emily's cracking up. 

Sensing something was up when Maddie asked, "Mimi's house now?", I realized Emily told her she couldn't go to Mimi's house until she gave me a hug and kiss!

I may have been played, but it was one of the sweetest moments to date.

Friday, October 23, 2009

Quick Facts Friday

The following is information from Compassion International specific to Tanzania, the country of sponsored child -- Magazi.
 "Although Tanzania is one of the most politically stable countries in Africa, it remains desperately poor.  The country hosts the largest refugee population in Africa because of conflicts in neighboring Rwanda, Burundi and Democratic Republic of Congo.  Refugee camps, which house thousands of children in Tanzania, have little access to clean water, sanitary conditions or education.
Nearly 90% of Tanzanians struggle to survive on less than $1.25 a day.  The country has few exports, and agriculture is the primary source of income.  Many regions, however, are plagued by drought."
Please consider sponsoring a child through Compassion International today.

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Awesome Reminder

Emily and I attended the last Passion City Church gathering.  As I mentioned before, the three anchors of the church are: The Glory of God.  The Grace of God.  Extravagant Worship.

Louie teased the audience at the beginning of the service by mentioning a new, never-been-released song by Chris to be sung at the end.

You could sense the excitment in the crowd.

When the service came to an end, Louie invited Chris to sing his song.  To my surprise (and I think everyone else), he exited the stage toward an "apartment" set up in the back of the venue.

That was it.  His "song" was raising awareness for an organization called World Relief, which assists refugees relocating to Atlanta.

It was an awesome reminder that singing songs is not worship, but a PART of worship.

How you live your life, day in and day out, is worship.

"For from him and through him and to him are all things.  To him be the glory forever!  Amen.  Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God -- this is your spiritual act of worship." (Romans 11:36-12:1)

"So whether you eat or you drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God." (1 Corinthians 10:31)

CLICK HERE for pictures from the gathering.

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Special Visitor

We had a special visitor last week -- soon-to-be Aunt Lindsey.  My brother's fiance was in from Colorado for work related reasons.  We were disappointed we didn't get to spend more time with her, but had fun at dinner and a quick visit to Barnes & Noble.


Friday, October 16, 2009

Quick Facts Friday

I know it's Quick Facts Friday, but I wanted to share this video from Catalyst 2009.





Please consider sponsoring a child through Compassion International today.

Saturday, October 10, 2009

SOOOOO much!

I don't know why, but it's been my experience that infants/toddlers love playing "How much does mommy/daddy love you?  SOOOOO much!"

Try it right now.  Even if you're alone.

Did you stretch your arms out?

Maybe I'm slow, but I just realized its similarity to Christ on the cross.

"For God so[ooo] loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life." (John 3:16)

Friday, October 9, 2009

Quick Facts Friday

This week, the quick facts focus is ENVIRONMENTAL.
  • More than 3 million children under age 5 die each year from disease because of environment-related causes and conditions.
  • Each year, acute respiratory infections kill approximately 2 million children under age 5.  Worldwide, 60% of acute respiratory infections are due to environmental conditions.
  • Diarrheal diseases take the lives of almost 2 million children each year.  80% to 90% of these diseases are related to environmental conditions, specifically contaminated water and inadequate sanitation.
  • Nearly 1 million people die each year because of malaria.  Of these deaths, 80% are children under age 5 in sub-Saharan Africa.  Up to 90% of malaria cases are attributed to environmental factors.
  • About 2.5 billion people do not have access to adequate sanitation -- roughly two-fifths of the world's population.
  • About 1 million children each year are diagnosed with intestinal worms caused by the lack of water along with poor hygiene practices.  Studies show that an adequate water supply could reduce trachoma infections by 25%.
  • More than 200 million people live in coastal flood zones, which would be dramatically impacted by rising waters.  While some 4 billion people -- 60% of the world's population -- live within 65 miles of a coast.
  • At least 1.6 billion people globally do not have electricity in their homes, and approximately 54% of people in developing countries lack access to modern forms of energy.
  • The number of people living in countries where cultivated land is critically scarce is project to increase from 448 million in 2005 to between 559 million and 7006 million in 2025.
Please consider sponsoring a child through Compassion International today.

Sunday, October 4, 2009

Just another day?


Friday, October 2, 2009

Quick Facts Friday

This week, the quick facts focus is CHILD ABUSE.
  • An estimated 300 million children worldwide are subjected to violence, exploitation and abuse, including the worst forms of child labor in communities, schools and institutions.
  • An estimated 1.2 million children are trafficked worldwide every year.
  • Children living in areas of extreme economic hardship and social disruption are at an increased risk for abuse, violence and exploitation.
  • About 1.5 billion children live in 42 countries affected by violent conflict between 2002 and 2006.  Of 14.2 million refuges worldwide, 41% may be children under the age of 18.
  • Worldwide, an estimated 40 million children under the age of 15 suffer from violence, abuse and neglect.
  • An estimated 1.2 million children -- both boys and girls -- are trafficked each year into exploitative work, including sex mining, factories, armed conflict or commercial sex work.
Please consider sponsoring a child through Compassion International today.

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Two Years Old!




Maddie turned two yesterday.  I can't believe it!  We celebrated over the weekend with our family.  Maddie was the center of attention, of course.  But it doesn't really take a birthday for that!



We tried teaching her to say "Thank you so much.  I love it!" when she received a gift.  What came out was, "Thank you, so I love it!"

The Steelers happened to play the Bengals over the weekend as well.  Em's family (including me) are Steelers fans while my family (excluding me) are Bengals fans.  Unfortunately, the Bengals came out on top.  But we had a good time.  Here's Maddie with her best friend Dindy (Em's Aunt Cindy).








Friday, September 25, 2009

Quick Facts Friday

This week, the quick facts focus is SOCIAL.
  • In 2007, for the first time in history, the majority of people lived in urban areas.  Throughout most of the developing world, this results in larger slum populations.
  • Nearly 30% of women worldwide give birth before age 18.
  • Some 200 million women who wish to space or limit their childbearing lack access ton contraception.
  • Nearly one in five parliamentary seats in 2008 were held by women, bringing the percentage to 18% -- with the highest percentages being in Europe and the Americas.  Out of 189 governments, women hold only 13 of the highest positions of state.
  • Young peoples ages 15 to 24 represent close to half of the world's increasing number of jobless people -- estimated at 192 million in 2006.  This number is expected to increase by 50 million by the end of 2009.  In many countries, youth are more than three times as likely as adults to be seeking work.  This presents an especially urgent challenge for developing countries, home to 85% of the world's youth.
  • Over one-third of all Internet users in the world live in developing countries, whose share of the world's "Internet population" grew by nearly 50% between 2000 and 2003.
  • An estimated 20 million children worldwide have been forced to flee their homes because of conflict and human rights violations.
Please consider sponsoring a child through Compassion International today.

Tuesday, September 22, 2009


Saturday, September 19, 2009

40 Good Reasons Not to Have Children?

Are you kidding me? 40 good reasons not to have children. That's the title of a new book by Corinne Maier. Here are the 40 "good" reasons:
  • The "desire for children": A silly idea
  • Labour is torture
  • You avoid becoming a walking pacifier
  • You keep having fun
  • Rat race plus rugrats: No thanks!
  • You keep your friends
  • You won't have to use the idiot language when talking to kids
  • Open the nursery, close the bedroom
  • Kids are the death of desire
  • Kids are the death knell of the couple
  • To be or to do: Don't decide
  • "The child is sort of vicious, innately cruel dwarf" (Michael Houellebecq)
  • Kids are conformists
  • Kids are a treasure, and will cost you one
  • Kids are unbiased allies of capitalism
  • A brain teaser: How to keep kids busy
  • The parent's worst nightmares
  • Don't be fooled by the "ideal child" illusion
  • Your kid will always disappoint you
  • The horror of becoming a merdeuf
  • Parent above all? No, thank you
  • Keep the experts at bay
  • The family: a horror
  • Don't revert to childhood
  • It takes real courage to keep saying, "Me first"
  • Kids signal the end of your youthful dreams
  • You can't stop yourself from wanting your kids to be happy
  • You can't get away from your kids
  • Get used to it: School is a boot camp
  • "Raise" a child...but toward what?
  • Avoid benevolent neutrality like the plague
  • Parenthood is a sad, sweet song
  • Motherhood is a trap for women
  • Motherhood or success: Pick one
  • When the child appears, the father disappears
  • Today's child is the perfect child: Welcome to the best of all possible worlds
  • Danger, child ahead
  • Why wear yourself out for a future that doesn't include you?
  • There are too many children in the world
  • Reject the ten absurd commandments of the "good" parent
I might be bias, but I think the title should be changed to 40 Selfish Reasons Not to Have Children. What do you think?

Friday, September 18, 2009

Quick Facts Friday

This week, the quick facts focus is on RELIGION.
  • Religion around the world is broken down like this: 33% Christians; 21% Muslims; 13% Hindus; 6% Buddhists; 2.3% atheists; 0.4% Sikhs; 0.2% Jewish; 0.1% Baha'is; 12% other; 12% nonreligious.
  • Brazil is the largest Catholic country in the world.
  • Women make up 56% of the adult born-again population.
  • Born-again Christians are more likely than the average adult to have volunteered their time to help their church in the past week (32% to 22%, respectively).
  • Nearly half of all Americans who receive Jesus Christ as their Savior do so before reaching the age of 13 (43%), and two out of three born-again Christians(64%) made that commitment to Christ before their 18th birthday.
  • Approximately 69% of Americans believe that God is the all-powerful, all-knowing, perfect Creator who rules the world today.
Please consider sponsoring a child through Compassion International today.

Monday, September 14, 2009

It's safe to say Maddie enjoyed herself...

This is in response to my last post. I think it's safe to say Maddie enjoyed herself last night. My apologies for the amateur video footage.







We left the house in disarray. When we got home, Em said, "Oh, I should have cleaned the house before we left." To which Maddie responded, "It's OK." and put her head on Em's shoulder. Hugging Em, she said, "Love you so much."

I took Micah upstairs to get ready for bed and heard Maddie singing, "Dory (Glory) to Dod (God), Dory to Dod, Dory to Dod forever!" while Em was putting her to bed.

Thank you God, for these precious moments!

Sunday, September 13, 2009

Maddie's New Song

We're (including Maddie) going to see Fee tonight, so we thought we would teach Maddie a new song.

"Take my life and let it be
All for You and for Your glory
Take my life and let it be Yours"

"Glory to God
Glory to God
Glory to God, forever"



We can't wait to worship with her! Thank you, Fee, for lyrics so simple (yet so profound) an almost-two-year-old can learn them!

Friday, September 11, 2009

Quick Facts Friday

This week, the quick facts focus is on CHARITABLE GIVING.
  • In 1970, wealthy nations agreed to a goal of spending 0.7% of their gross national product on assistance to developing countries. Through 2007, the amount of aid has been around 0.2% to 0.4%.
  • More than 92% of Americans participate at come level of charitable giving.
  • Low-income working families are the most generous group in America, giving away about 4.5% of their income on average, compared with about 2.5% among the middle class, and 3.0% among high-income families.
  • Top five reasons why people give: (1) Because they are asked to or are presented a giving opportunity; (2) Compassion for those in need; (3) Personally believe in the cause; (4) Affected by the cause; (5) To give back to their community.
  • Total giving to charitable organizations increased to $306 billion in 2007, up 3.9% from 2006 (when adjusted for inflation). That accounted for 2.2% of U.S. domestic product.
  • 32% of U.S. adults have less than positive feelings toward America's charitable organizations. And only one in 10 strongly agrees that charitable organization are honest and ethical in their use of donated funds.
  • Younger donors are more likely to respond positively to messages that focus on the global impact of an organization's work, while older donors are more likely to give to groups that highlight services they provide that the government does not.
Please consider sponsoring a child through Compassion International today.

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Whose birthday is it?

Unless someone told you, you never would have known I turned 28 today (see below). Yes, I was born on 09/09/81 (mathematical) and today's date is SUPER cool -- 09/09/09.

Em made things festive this morning with candles in our breakfast. Notice it's Maddie's second birthday and my first!


Maddie loves the candles SO much she took one out of her bag (in her lap under the table) and stuck one in her chicken nugget! Wait a minute, whose birthday is it?


She's becoming a pro at blowing them out. Good thing, because she turns TWO in a few weeks!

This has been one of the best birthdays ever. Maddie is at an age where she understands what is going on. I've heard "Hap burt-day to dada!" a number of times and even got two homemade birthday cards covered in Disney princess stickers!

Oh yeah, thanks Em for the "guest post". I know how much you HATE to write and how much more you hate someone to read what you write. I love you so much. Thanks for making this birthday extra special as well!

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Happy Birthday to DaDa!!!!


Well, I've got to do this quick, and I really don't know what I'm doing. I'm trying to sneak into your account and do this before you get out of the shower......Plus, you know how much I love to write and even more how much I love for people to read what I write. So sorry no nice long sweet blog from me. Just a simple --we hope you have a great birthday and thanks for being the best dad and husband. Love ya!

Samuel's Memorial Service

The Apinis' posted links to Samuel's memorial service. It was moving, not only because of their loss, but because of their faith. CLICK HERE to check it out. And please, keep them in your prayers.

Friday, September 4, 2009

Quick Facts Friday

This week, the quick facts focus is on EDUCATION.
  • An estimated 130 million of the world's 15- to 24-year-olds cannot read or write.
  • There are 781 million illiterate adults worldwide, and 64% of them are women.
  • Nearly 75 million children worldwide are out of school. Some 55% of these children are girls, meaning that for every 90 boys out of school, 110 girls are in the same situation.
  • Of the 22 countries where more than half the population is illiterate, 15 are in Africa.
  • Only 4.4% of GDP per capita is spent by the public sector on education world wide.
  • About 17% of children in developing countries never finish primary school. Household studies show that children are less likely to attend school when they come from poorer families.


Please consider sponsoring a child through Compassion International today.

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

I was the happiest man alive!

I first noticed Emily at Southland Christian Church's Day of Service in June 2003. We were at the same site clearing brush. I recall being taken back by her beauty, but more importantly, her desire to serve.

At the time, I was in one of those started-dating-in-high-school, on-again-off-again relationships. The relationship finally came to an end in April 2004. I found myself sitting through a service one Sunday night. The pastor mentioned his prayer that men would search for a woman like that in Proverbs 31 and that women would strive to be like that in Proverbs 31.

Never having read Proverbs 31, I did so immediately. I was amazed. It was exactly what I had longed for and more importantly, what God longed for me. Now knowing what I wanted and having just ended a long-term relationship, I told God I was willing to wait...a year...five years...ten years. It didn't matter. I knew what I wanted and I was willing to wait. In the meantime, I prayed for her.

Shortly thereafter, I found myself in the same circles as Emily. I hadn't seen her since the day of service. Having remembered what went through my mind that day, I took an interest. She was quiet, didn't talk to "boys" and hadn't dated anyone for a NUMBER of years (the same number of years I had been in a relationship as a matter of fact). She believed God would bring "Mr. Right" into her life, so why fool around? Her family always felt if she was going to go (i.e. get married), she would go quickly -- and she did!


It didn't take long for me to realize she was "the one". There was only one problem -- she was "rooted" in Lexington (i.e. had started her career, her family was in town, etc.) and I was moving to Atlanta. I wrestled with whether or not I should tell her how I felt. I didn't want to say "Hey, by the way, I REALLY like you." and then move several hundred miles away. But at the same time, I didn't want to move without tell her how I felt out of fear of "what could have been".

So I took a chance. I put myself out there and let her know how I felt. I believe we were in the cookbook section of Joseph-Beth. I think I said something profound like, "I have something to tell you. I REALLY like you." As you can imagine, she was shocked. We "stepped outside" to discuss the "bombshell". Than God the feelings were mutual!


Knowing I was moving to Atlanta, we didn't want to waste ANY time. My parents had taken off the week I was moving, so we decided to get married that Thursday night. I actually moved everything to Atlanta, got the apartment ready, and drove back the day of our wedding!

It was an intimate affair -- 15 people in all. It was somewhat of a whirlwind, but I'll never forget how badly my cheeks hurt from smiling so much. I was the happiest man alive!


Our "reception" was at the Merrick Inn. They had a room that fit us perfectly. After the dinner, Emily and I drove off to the Cumberland Inn. Our drive to Atlanta was one of the most memorable moments as well. I'll never forget Em sitting with her back against the passenger door, her feet on my lap, smile on her face, sun shinning, country music blaring and the two of us looking forward to starting our lives together.

If I had to do it all over again, I would -- and I wouldn't change a thing! I'd take a wedding on a Thursday night and a honeymoon in Atlanta any day of the week.

I love you sweetheart.

Happy 5-Year Anniversary!